{"id":479,"date":"2024-08-13T10:50:12","date_gmt":"2024-08-13T10:50:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.elenasdiscoverycoaching.com\/CoachingWebsite\/?page_id=479"},"modified":"2024-09-29T10:02:31","modified_gmt":"2024-09-29T10:02:31","slug":"boundaries","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.elenasdiscoverycoaching.com\/?page_id=479","title":{"rendered":"Post &#8211; boundaries"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Boundaries<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>We are rarely taught how to <strong>set boundaries<\/strong>, which is why as we grow older, we may find it difficult to do so. <strong>Boundaries<\/strong> are present in any situation involving other people. This means you will have to identify what your <a href=\"https:\/\/wellnesscenter.uic.edu\/news-stories\/boundaries-what-are-they-and-how-to-create-them\/#:~:text=Boundaries%20can%20be%20physical%20(e.g.,%2C%20or%20Z%20is%20completed.)\"><strong>needs<\/strong> and wants<\/a> are and communicate them to your friends, partner or family members. Keep in mind though that your <strong>boundaries<\/strong> might be different with different people. That is, the <strong>boundaries<\/strong> you have with your friends might be <a href=\"https:\/\/wellnesscenter.uic.edu\/news-stories\/boundaries-what-are-they-and-how-to-create-them\/#:~:text=Boundaries%20can%20be%20physical%20(e.g.,%2C%20or%20Z%20is%20completed.)\">different<\/a> from the ones you <strong>set<\/strong> with your partner or coworkers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Keeping this in mind, let\u2019s dive deeper into what <strong>boundaries<\/strong> are, what types of <strong>boundaries<\/strong> exist, why they are important, and how to <strong>set<\/strong> them for yourself and your well-being.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What are boundaries?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wellnesscenter.uic.edu\/news-stories\/boundaries-what-are-they-and-how-to-create-them\/#:~:text=Boundaries%20can%20be%20physical%20(e.g.,%2C%20or%20Z%20is%20completed.)\"><strong>Boundaries<\/strong><\/a> are physical or emotional limits, based on time or space. They are like <a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellhealth.com\/setting-boundaries-5208802\">fences<\/a> that give people privacy and safety. It was shown that if people don\u2019t learn how to <strong>set clear<\/strong>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellhealth.com\/setting-boundaries-5208802\">healthy<\/a> <strong>boundaries<\/strong> as <a href=\"https:\/\/onlinelibrary.wiley.com\/doi\/10.1111\/jftr.12258\">children<\/a>, they will likely experience some difficulties setting <strong>boundaries<\/strong> as adults.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellhealth.com\/setting-boundaries-5208802\">three<\/a> main types of <strong>boundaries<\/strong>:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Clear boundaries<\/strong> &#8211; are directly stated, flexible and adaptable<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Open <strong>boundaries<\/strong> &#8211; are not <strong>clear<\/strong> but enmeshed, which can result in codependency and unmet <strong>needs<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Rigid <strong>boundaries<\/strong> &#8211; are closed and inflexible, which means that it can be harder for someone to express individuality and communicate their <strong>needs<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh7-us.googleusercontent.com\/docsz\/AD_4nXfrDqnuxoI1rVQ9Hl8m41NxnSdDDZjiamg9n1XNpN9pVil61oR6yefZj873G-XvMGpaTmeZAnpJtRGrwMQZvEYKgOZ1gy-Ej8TTOXFRGxZr7sSDpjUkwF3HdVSbm8tuNhu85aew13ywDkNk3Whl_0j3_ife?key=bg5b_IxB3l9KSikhEx3H3g\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellhealth.com\/setting-boundaries-5208802\"><strong>Boundaries<\/strong><\/a> can also be:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Sexual<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>When a <strong>boundary<\/strong> would avoid you feeling pressured to give or receive unwanted intimate affection<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Physical<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>When a <strong>boundary<\/strong> would help you keep a physical distance from someone, not greet everyone with a kiss or hug, or cancel plans with a friend if feeling depleted<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Emotional<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>It may be important to set an emotional <strong>boundary<\/strong> when someone shares something emotional with you without your consent, or when someone belittles your feelings<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Mental<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>As in accepting that everyone has different ideas and beliefs, and not invalidating someone just because of such differences<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Material<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>As in not giving in when forced or pressured to give something of value away<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Time<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>When the demands from different areas of life (e.g. family and work) are unreasonable and you take on too much at the same time, it may be helpful to have a time <strong>boundary<\/strong> in place<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh7-us.googleusercontent.com\/docsz\/AD_4nXcn3oRDB3JTO_6XcjxZMyjY8HgfqROsOTMwnFHFG2loy6fnSvs4Hg2HhLXhRQaTSYrJLAJDxnlg6BH_ZcTQgm26zSoAngFq7KOgGif2AO8XcTL0LawChCyFFIdrwIiQEmEZ4g_aJk2GqQ5QCCNFjf9llTc?key=bg5b_IxB3l9KSikhEx3H3g\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Why are boundaries important?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Whether it\u2019s a friendship, romance, or professional relationship, it is important to <strong>set boundaries<\/strong> to protect one\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/wellnesscenter.uic.edu\/news-stories\/boundaries-what-are-they-and-how-to-create-them\/#:~:text=Boundaries%20can%20be%20physical%20(e.g.,%2C%20or%20Z%20is%20completed.)\">identity<\/a> and respect one\u2019s own well-being. <strong>Boundaries<\/strong> give others a <strong>clear<\/strong> idea of how you would like to be treated, letting others know what is acceptable and unacceptable for you. They also honor your wants and <strong>needs<\/strong>, and make those <strong>clear<\/strong> to everyone around you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On the other hand, a lack of <strong>boundaries<\/strong> can lead to <a href=\"https:\/\/psychcentral.com\/lib\/10-way-to-build-and-preserve-better-boundaries#the-lowdown\">emotional and physical fatigue<\/a>, especially if you have to deal with negative people and behaviors.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The benefits of setting boundaries<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Improved self-care<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Clear<\/strong> expectations for others<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Less stress<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Less <a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellhealth.com\/setting-boundaries-5208802\">resentment<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Improved relationships<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Improved mental and emotional health<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>More autonomy and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellhealth.com\/setting-boundaries-5208802\">balance<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>More self-respect and respect from others<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How to set boundaries<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Your <strong>boundaries<\/strong>, and what you consider as \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.hazeldenbettyford.org\/articles\/boundaries-in-addiction-recovery\">crossed<\/a>\u201d <strong>boundaries<\/strong>, will change based on your values, culture, beliefs, and family traditions. Nevertheless, this is what you can do to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellhealth.com\/setting-boundaries-5208802\"><strong>set<\/strong><\/a><strong> clear boundaries<\/strong> at any time:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Goal setting &#8211; reflect on the reasons for your <strong>boundaries<\/strong> and why they are important for you to <strong>set<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Focus on the small steps &#8211; especially at the beginning, when setting <strong>boundaries<\/strong> can be hard and uncomfortable<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Clarity &#8211; be <strong>clear<\/strong> with your intentions in setting a <strong>boundary<\/strong>; also, the <a href=\"https:\/\/psychcentral.com\/lib\/10-way-to-build-and-preserve-better-boundaries#others-boundaries\">sooner<\/a> you <strong>set<\/strong> a <strong>boundary<\/strong> the better<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Practice &#8211; practice setting <strong>boundaries<\/strong> and communicating them<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Keep it simple &#8211; just pick one thing at a time and focus on making that <strong>clear<\/strong> for others<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Know yourself and your limits<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The best thing you can do before setting <strong>boundaries<\/strong> with anyone is to get to know yourself and <strong>set<\/strong> the limits that serve you (not others). Pay attention to how you feel and react in every situation, as well as to the physical sensations. Oftentimes, if something feels off or uncomfortable, it is because one of your <strong>boundaries<\/strong> has been crossed and someone has passed your limit. Respect that and make sure you let the other person know.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Communicate<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>If something doesn\u2019t sit right with you, don\u2019t wait too long before communicating it. If a person is crossing your <strong>boundaries<\/strong>, it is your job to stand up for yourself and tell the other person where your limits lie. Communicating <strong>boundaries<\/strong> is at the foundation of all <a href=\"https:\/\/wellnesscenter.uic.edu\/news-stories\/boundaries-what-are-they-and-how-to-create-them\/#:~:text=Boundaries%20can%20be%20physical%20(e.g.,%2C%20or%20Z%20is%20completed.)\">healthy<\/a> relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Boundaries in coaching<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Boundaries<\/strong> are very important to <strong>set<\/strong> in coaching. As a client and coach form a relationship and <strong>set<\/strong> an agreement, having <strong>clear boundaries<\/strong> as to what a coach\u2019s role vs client\u2019s role is is very important. This will avoid future disappointments and misunderstandings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What\u2019s more, just as it is important for a coach to have <strong>boundaries<\/strong> and let the clients know, it is equally important to identify and understand your clients\u2019 <strong>boundaries<\/strong>. Forcing someone into something (e.g. a change in behavior or perspective) is never the best solution. It can actually lead to resentment and <a href=\"https:\/\/psychcentral.com\/lib\/10-way-to-build-and-preserve-better-boundaries#others-boundaries\">withdrawal<\/a>. Hence, becoming aware of your clients\u2019 <strong>boundaries<\/strong> as a coach will likely improve your coaching sessions and increase your clients\u2019 satisfaction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh7-us.googleusercontent.com\/docsz\/AD_4nXcN73h8tkl75kPxJujqRDTWrutDVurJQaqN9ReyiimO0XL7VN1Ktg4cVg5jiE2-ocUOEaKBEGAc9sK9hRrmy8yR3auRMVcGT3EvUr0XretBx8N6I4Gnvqb-lj7hx84dvu9HCDqa4XHyaLf1Bj7z9hzKyFk?key=bg5b_IxB3l9KSikhEx3H3g\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Recognize that you are allowed to <strong>set boundaries<\/strong> for yourself, and that your relationships might improve as a result of that. By setting <strong>clear boundaries<\/strong> you will be better able to preserve your energy and use it in more effective ways.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lastly, you are allowed to have <strong>boundaries<\/strong> and you don\u2019t have to feel <a href=\"https:\/\/psychcentral.com\/relationships\/what-are-personal-boundaries-how-do-i-get-some\">guilty<\/a> about it. If someone cares about you and respects you, they would want to know what you <strong>need<\/strong> to feel <a href=\"https:\/\/psychcentral.com\/relationships\/what-are-personal-boundaries-how-do-i-get-some\">safe<\/a>. Remember, the world is not a better place when we ignore our own <strong>needs<\/strong> for the <a href=\"https:\/\/psychcentral.com\/relationships\/what-are-personal-boundaries-how-do-i-get-some\">comfort<\/a> of others. <strong>Boundaries<\/strong> are not optional; they are necessary.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">References<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wellnesscenter.uic.edu\/news-stories\/boundaries-what-are-they-and-how-to-create-them\/#:~:text=Boundaries%20can%20be%20physical%20(e.g.,%2C%20or%20Z%20is%20completed.)\">Boundaries: What Are They And How To Create Them<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellhealth.com\/setting-boundaries-5208802\">How To Set Healthy Boundaries With Anyone<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/psychcentral.com\/lib\/10-way-to-build-and-preserve-better-boundaries\">10 Ways to Build And Preserve Better Boundaries<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/psychcentral.com\/relationships\/what-are-personal-boundaries-how-do-i-get-some\">Why Personal Boundaries Are Important And How To Set Them<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Keywords<\/strong>: boundaries, boundary, set, clear, needs<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-comments\">\n\n\t<div id=\"respond\" class=\"comment-respond wp-block-post-comments-form\">\n\t\t<h3 id=\"reply-title\" class=\"comment-reply-title\">Leave a Reply <small><a rel=\"nofollow\" id=\"cancel-comment-reply-link\" href=\"\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fpages%2F479#respond\" style=\"display:none;\">Cancel reply<\/a><\/small><\/h3><form action=\"https:\/\/www.elenasdiscoverycoaching.com\/wp-comments-post.php\" method=\"post\" id=\"commentform\" class=\"comment-form\" novalidate><p class=\"comment-notes\"><span id=\"email-notes\">Your email address will not be published.<\/span> <span 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